Keyshia Cole sat down with VladTV and discussed her choice to practice celibacy, saying she’s just wants to focus on her son, music, and things that actually bring her joy instead of the drama of worrying about what someone else has going on. She feels it’s important that her son see her be happy instead of stressed out, mad or sad all the time, and at this point she’s choosing to be happier, and celibacy has helped her with that.

She also speaks on the state of her family, saying she can’t wait for fans to see her new show because so much has changed over the years, namely sister Neffe getting her act together. Peep the clip above.